Istikhara Karne Ka Tarika | 2 Rak'at Nafl, Dua Aur Khwaab Ki Nishani
Pichli post me hum ne parha ke shaadi se pehle istikhara karna kyun zaroori hai. Ab jaante hain ke istikhara kaise karte hain — yeh woh tareeqa hai jo Rasoolullah (sallAllahu alaih-e-wa-sallam) ne sikhaya, aur aaima-e-kiraam ne bayan farmaya.
🕌 Tareeqa (1): Namaz-E-Haajat Aur Dua-E-Istikhara
Jis se nikaah karne ka irada ho, woh peylam ya mangni ke baare me kisi se jhik (duniya ki tamanna) na kare. Ab khoob achi tarah wuzu kare aur jitni nafl namaz padh sakta ho, do-do rak'at kar ke padhe. Phir namaz khatam karne ke baad khoob khoob Allah ta'ala ki tasbeeh-o-tahleel bayan kare (jo bhi tasbeeh yaad ho, woh zaroor se zyada padhe) — jaise Allahu Akbar, SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, La ilaha illallah, Ya Rabbi, Astaghfirullah — phir us ke baad yeh dua khuzoo-o-khuzu aur dil ki gahrai se padhe:
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ، فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ، اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِي فِي دِينِي وَدُنْيَايَ وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ، وَإِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِي فِي دِينِي وَدُنْيَايَ وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِي بِهِ
Tarjuma: "Ae Allah! Main har cheez par qadir hai aur main qadir nahi. Tu sab janta hai, mujhe nahi janta — be-shak Tu jaanne wala hai. (Ladki ka ya aurat ka naam le kar kahay ke) mere liye mere deen ke, meri duniya aur aakhirat ke e'tebar se — deen wa aakhirat ke liye behtar ho to us ko mere liye muqarrar farma de. Aur agar us ke ane-wale ka anjaam meri duniya aur aakhirat ke liye behtar na ho, to us ko mere liye muqarrar farma de."
(Hadees Haseen, Safha no. 160)
Is tarah istikhara karne se saat (7) raaton me khoob hi jaldi me Allah ta'ala ki jaanib se jo bhi cheez jaa'iz hogi ya esa bujh gaai gujarega jiske liye aap ko awaaz di ja rahi hai — yeh ma'aloom ho jaata hai ke us ladki ya aurat se nikaah karna behtar hai ya nahi.
📖 Tareeqa (2): Aaima-E-Kiraam Ka Bayan Kiya Hua
Kuch aaima-e-kiraam ne istikhara karne ka tareeqa yeh bhi bayan kiya hai ke —
Raat ko pehle do rak'at namaz is tarah padhe ke pehli rak'at me Surah Fatiha (Al-Hamd Shareef) ke baad (qul huwallahu ahad — Surah Ikhlas) ek baar padhe, aur doosri rak'at me Surah Fatiha ke baad (qul a'oozu bi-rabbin-naas — Surah Naas) ek baar padhe. (Woh dua jo ham ne pehle likhi hai) dua karne se pehle wuzu kare, aur namaz ke baad Surah Fatiha (Al-Hamd Shareef) aur Surah Ikhlas-o-Naas zaroor padhe.
🌙 Saat Raat Aur Khwaab Ki Nishani
Behtar yeh hai ke saat (7) baar istikhara kare — yaani saat raat lagataar kar sakte hain, ek hi raat me saat baar bhi kar sakte hain. Istikhara karne ke baad seedhe qibla ki taraf rukh kar so jaaye.
- Agar khwaab me saafed (white) cheez nazar aaye to samjho ke woh ladki kaamyaab hai — us ladki se shaadi karna theek hoga.
- Aur agar kaali ya peeli (black/yellow) cheez dekhe to samjho ke kaamyaabi nahi — us ladki se shaadi karne me burai hai. (Wallahu A'lam)
✅ Khulasa (Summary)
- Achi tarah wuzu karein, do-do rak'at nafl padhein, Allah ki tasbeeh-o-hamd ke baad dua-e-istikhara (upar Arabic + tarjuma maujood hai) dil ki gahrai se padhein.
- Fatiha ke baad Surah Ikhlas aur Surah Naas wala doosra tareeqa bhi aaima ne bayan kiya hai — saat raat istikhara karna behtar hai.
- Qibla rukh kar soein; saafed nishani kamyabi aur kaali/peeli nishani nuqs ki alamat hai — aur faislay ka aakhir Allah ke hawale (Wallahu A'lam).
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